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It shows up in the middle of the thing itself. You are two chapters into a Gospel, or halfway through a prayer in the car, and the thought arrives without knocking: what if none of this is real? You keep going, because stopping feels worse, but now you feel like a fraud doing it. Nobody warned you that the doubt would come while you were following, not before.
So you type the question into a search bar at night. How to follow Jesus when you doubt. The question assumes something: that doubt and following are opposites, and that the doubt has to be dealt with first. There is a verse in Matthew that quietly disagrees with that, and it sits three lines from the end of the book.
The line most people read straight past
Matthew’s Gospel ends on a mountain in Galilee. The eleven remaining disciples go to the place Jesus told them to go, and this is how Matthew describes what happened when they got there:
“And when they saw him, they worshipped him: but some doubted.” (Matthew 28:17, KJV)
Read it again slowly. These are not strangers in a crowd. These are the eleven. They had walked with Jesus for about three years, watched Him heal people, heard the teaching first-hand, and now they are standing in front of Him after the resurrection. Matthew says they worshipped. Then, in the same sentence, with no softening, he says some of them doubted.
Matthew does not say which ones. He does not say what the doubt was about. He does not say it was a small doubt or a passing one. He just reports it and moves on, and the fact that he left it in at all tells you something. The man writing this book was not trying to make the first followers look like people who had it all settled.
What Jesus did with a group that included doubters
Here is the next verse:
“And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.” (Matthew 28:18, KJV)
Notice the first thing He does. He came. He moved toward them. Then He speaks, and what He says is the sending that Christians have called the Great Commission ever since: go, teach all nations, baptize, teach them to keep what I commanded you. And then the promise that closes the whole Gospel:
“and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.” (Matthew 28:20, KJV)
There is no sorting in between. Jesus does not say, “The ones who are sure, step forward.” He does not pull the doubters aside and fix them before handing out the assignment. The job and the promise are given to the group Matthew just described, and that group included people who were doubting while they knelt.
That is the whole answer to how to follow Jesus when you doubt, and it is not a trick. The first people ever sent out to tell the world about Him were, some of them, not sure. He sent them anyway. He promised to be with them anyway.
The word shows up exactly twice, and both times the doubter is already out
The Greek word Matthew uses for “doubted” here is distazo. It is built on the word for “twice.” Picture someone standing in two places at once, pulled two ways, unable to settle. It is not the word for refusing to believe. It is the word for wavering.
What makes it worth knowing is how rarely it appears. In the whole New Testament, distazo is used exactly twice, both times by Matthew. The second time is this mountain. The first time is Peter on the water:
“And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, and said unto him, O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?” (Matthew 14:31, KJV)
Look at the order of events in that sentence. Jesus stretches out His hand. Jesus catches him. Then He asks the question about doubt. The hand comes before the question, and the question comes while Peter is already being held.
So put the two uses side by side. Peter is out of the boat, on the water, already walking toward Jesus when the doubt hits. The eleven are on the mountain, already worshipping, when some of them doubt. Nobody in the New Testament is described with this word while standing on the shore deciding whether to get out of the boat. Both times, the doubt comes to people who are already following. And both times, Jesus has hold of them when it does.
If you want the fuller story of the word, there is a piece here on what Jesus actually said to Thomas and the Greek word behind “doubting.” The short version is that doubt in this sense is a crossroads, not a closed door.
What Matthew never tells you
This is the part that changed how I read the ending.
Matthew’s Gospel is twenty-eight chapters long. “Some doubted” is in verse 17 of the last chapter. Verse 20 is the final verse of the book. Three verses after reporting that some of the eleven were doubting, Matthew stops writing.
He never says their doubt lifted. There is no line that reads, “and after He spoke, they were all sure.” The last words these doubting men hear from Jesus, in Matthew’s telling, are “I am with you alway.” Then the page ends. The resolution you are looking for, the moment the doubt finally goes away before the real following begins, is not in the text. The sending came first. The being-with came first. Whatever happened to the doubt happened on the road, after the book closed.
That is good news for the person searching at night. You were waiting to be sure before you counted as a follower. Matthew shows you people who were sent while unsure, and he did not think the reader needed to see the doubt resolved to understand the story. The walking is the story.
A prayer for people who are two places at once
There is one more sentence in the Gospels that belongs here. A father brings his son to Jesus, and when Jesus tells him that all things are possible to the one who believes, the man answers with a sentence that holds both halves of your situation at once:
“Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief.” (Mark 9:24, KJV)
Belief and unbelief, in one breath, from one man, said out loud to Jesus’s face. And Mark records that Jesus healed the boy. The prayer did not have to be cleaned up first. If you do not know what to say on the mornings when the doubt is loud, say that. It is already in the Bible, so you cannot be told it is the wrong prayer.
What following looks like on a doubting morning
Here is what changes once you take Matthew at his word.
You stop treating the doubt as an alarm. When the thought comes while you are reading, you do not have to shut the Bible and go settle the question of whether God exists before you are allowed to open it again. The eleven did not do that on the mountain. You read the next paragraph with the doubt sitting next to you. Most mornings, it gets quieter on its own once Jesus is doing something concrete on the page.
You read what Jesus did, not what people argue about Him. Doubt feeds on abstractions. It is very hard to doubt your way through a scene where Jesus stops for a blind man shouting from the roadside, because there is nothing abstract in it. The Gospels are mostly scenes. That is why people who are struggling to believe do better reading Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John than reading books about Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.
You keep the appointment. Peter’s doubt came on the water, so the answer was not to get back in the boat. The eleven’s doubt came on the mountain, so the answer was not to go home. Yours comes during the ten minutes you set aside, so the answer is not to cancel the ten minutes. You show up doubting, the way they did, and you let the hand come before the question.
And if what you feel is less doubt and more nothing at all, that is a different morning, and there is a page here on how to follow Jesus when you don’t feel anything. The two often get mistaken for each other.
The road after the mountain
The eleven went down from that mountain with doubt still in the group and a job to do, and what they had was not certainty. What they had was Jesus’s own words and actions to carry with them, and a promise that He was with them. That is exactly what a person doing this now needs too: not an argument that wins, but a daily place to stand in front of what He said and did, one scene at a time, until the two-places-at-once feeling has somewhere to go.
That is what 30 Days Walking with Jesus is. It walks through the life of Jesus one day at a time, through the Gospels, for people who are starting or starting over. Each day there is a short devotional video under sixty seconds, a full-chapter audio reading so you can listen while you drive or wash up, a PDF study guide with journal prompts, and five quick-reference scripture guides for the questions that keep coming back. It takes under ten minutes a day. If you have been wondering how to follow Jesus in the plainest sense, it is a place to begin, built for the doubting morning as much as the confident one.
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Some of the eleven doubted, and He sent them anyway. Day 1 is open to you on the same terms.
Questions People Are Asking
Q: Can you follow Jesus if you still have doubts?
A: Yes, and the New Testament shows it directly. Matthew 28:17 (KJV) says of the eleven disciples meeting the risen Jesus, “they worshipped him: but some doubted.” In the very next verses Jesus gives that same group the Great Commission and promises, “lo, I am with you alway.” He did not separate the doubters from the rest or wait for their doubt to clear before sending them. Following Jesus while doubting is not a loophole; it is how the first followers were described at the end of Matthew’s Gospel.
Q: Is it a sin to doubt God?
A: The Bible treats wavering doubt and hardened refusal as different things. The Greek word for “doubted” in Matthew 28:17, distazo, means to waver or be pulled two ways, and it is used only twice in the New Testament, both times of people already following Jesus. In Mark 9:24 a father says to Jesus, “Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief,” and Jesus answers the request rather than rebuking it. Honest doubt brought to Jesus is answered in the Gospels. What Scripture warns against is turning away, not asking.
Q: What should I do when I doubt my faith is real?
A: Keep doing the ordinary things of following rather than stopping to settle every question first. Read the Gospels, where Jesus is doing concrete things in concrete places, because doubt tends to feed on abstractions and quiets down around specifics. Pray the exact words of Mark 9:24, “Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief,” which already holds both halves of what you feel. And keep your daily time with the Bible on the days the doubt is loud, since in both places Matthew uses the word for doubt the doubters are people who stayed out on the water or up on the mountain rather than going back.
Q: Did Jesus ever get angry at people for doubting?
A: In the two places Matthew uses the word distazo, no. When Peter doubts on the water in Matthew 14:31, the text says Jesus “immediately” stretched out His hand and caught him first, and only then asked, “wherefore didst thou doubt?” On the mountain in Matthew 28, when some of the eleven doubted, Jesus came toward them and commissioned the whole group. In both scenes His first action toward a doubter is to reach for them or move closer, not to turn away.
Q: Is 30 Days Walking with Jesus really free?
A: Yes. There is no payment, no card required, no free-trial clock, and no upsell. It includes thirty short devotional videos under sixty seconds each, thirty full-chapter audio readings, a complete PDF study guide with journal prompts, and five quick-reference scripture guides, and it takes under ten minutes a day. You get instant access on any device and it stays yours. It is free because the words of Jesus should not sit behind a paywall.
