{"id":117124,"date":"2026-09-28T11:03:26","date_gmt":"2026-09-28T15:03:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/?p=117124"},"modified":"2026-09-28T11:03:26","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T15:03:26","slug":"how-to-pray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/index.php\/what-jesus-teaches\/how-to-pray\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Pray: The Disciples Learned by Watching Jesus First"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='booster-block booster-read-block'>\n                <div class=\"twp-read-time\">\n                \t<i class=\"booster-icon twp-clock\"><\/i> <span>Read Time:<\/span>7 Minute, 2 Second                <\/div>\n\n            <\/div><p>Luke records a small moment that&#8217;s easy to read past. Jesus finishes praying. Nobody knows how long He&#8217;s been at it. And one of His friends, someone who has already watched Him heal the sick and calm a storm, walks up and asks for just one thing: <em>teach us to pray.<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p>If you&#8217;ve ever sat down to pray and not known what to say first, you&#8217;re in good company. The people closest to Jesus didn&#8217;t know either. What&#8217;s worth noticing is how they found out. Nobody handed them a rulebook. They watched Him pray, and afterward they asked. That order is the most useful thing anyone can tell you about how to pray.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-16018d1d wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\"><div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/30_Days_Walking_With_Jesus\/?utm_source=wordpress&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=wwj&amp;utm_content=51\">Show Me Day 1<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n<h2>They Asked After They Watched<\/h2>\n\n<p>Here is the verse, word for word:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;And it came to pass, that, as he was praying in a certain place, when he ceased, one of his disciples said unto him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples.&#8221; (Luke 11:1, KJV)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Read it slowly. <strong>&#8220;As he was praying&#8230; when he ceased.&#8221;<\/strong> The question didn&#8217;t come out of a class. It came out of watching. Something about the way Jesus prayed made His friends want what He had.<\/p>\n\n<p>That&#8217;s good news if prayer feels stiff or awkward for you. You don&#8217;t have to invent it from nothing. You can do what those first friends did: spend time around Jesus, see how He talks with the Father, and let that shape the way you talk too.<\/p>\n\n<h2>The Answer Jesus Gave Was Short<\/h2>\n\n<p>When they asked, Jesus didn&#8217;t give a lecture. He gave them a few plain lines:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.&#8221; (Luke 11:2-4, KJV)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n<p>You can say it out loud in well under a minute. And it isn&#8217;t a magic formula. It reads more like a path you can walk, with a few simple turns:<\/p>\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Start with who you&#8217;re talking to.<\/strong> &#8220;Our Father.&#8221; Before you ask for anything, remember you&#8217;re not talking to a stranger.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Say what matters most.<\/strong> &#8220;Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come.&#8221; Tell God you want what is good and right, not just what is convenient.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ask for today.<\/strong> &#8220;Give us day by day our daily bread.&#8221; Not next year. Today. (We dug into that one line <a href=\"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/index.php\/what-jesus-teaches\/give-us-this-day-our-daily-bread-meaning\/\">in a separate piece on daily bread<\/a>.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Clear the air.<\/strong> &#8220;Forgive us our sins; for we also forgive.&#8221; Let go of what you&#8217;ve been carrying, both the things you did and the things done to you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ask for help with what&#8217;s ahead.<\/strong> &#8220;Lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p>That&#8217;s it. Five small movements. You can pray those exact words, or use them as a guide and say the same things in your own voice.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Plain Words Are Welcome<\/h2>\n\n<p>A lot of people freeze because they think prayer needs special language. Jesus said the opposite:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.&#8221; (Matthew 6:7, KJV)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n<p>More words don&#8217;t make a prayer work better. Fancy words don&#8217;t either. One of the shortest prayers in the Gospels is a tax collector&#8217;s plea for mercy, and Jesus held it up as the right kind (<a href=\"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/index.php\/what-jesus-teaches\/sinners-prayer\/\">we looked at those words here<\/a>). So if all you&#8217;ve got today is &#8220;Help,&#8221; or &#8220;Thank you,&#8221; or &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to do,&#8221; that counts. That&#8217;s prayer.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Where and When Jesus Prayed<\/h2>\n\n<p>The Gospels also show us <em>how<\/em> Jesus made room for prayer. Mark gives us a snapshot:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;And in the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out, and departed into a solitary place, and there prayed.&#8221; (Mark 1:35, KJV)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n<p>And Luke adds: &#8220;And he withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed.&#8221; (Luke 5:16, KJV)<\/p>\n\n<p>Early. Quiet. Alone. Jesus didn&#8217;t wait until He had a free afternoon. He stepped away from the noise on purpose. Jesus also told people to find a closed door: &#8220;enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret&#8221; (Matthew 6:6, KJV).<\/p>\n\n<p>For you, that might be the car before you walk into work. The kitchen before anyone else is up. A porch step. It doesn&#8217;t need to be holy-looking. It just needs to be yours, and quiet.<\/p>\n\n<h2>What Changes When You Start<\/h2>\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s what a lot of people notice when they stop trying to pray &#8220;right&#8221; and start praying honestly. The morning feels less rushed, even when the day is full. The worry that used to spin all night gets named out loud, and naming it loosens its grip. And slowly, prayer stops feeling like a duty you&#8217;re failing at. It starts feeling like talking to Someone who was already listening.<\/p>\n\n<p>That&#8217;s the real thing the disciples wanted. They didn&#8217;t want a script. They wanted what they saw in Jesus: that easy, steady closeness with the Father. And the way they got it was simple. They stayed near Jesus, day after day, and watched.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Learn to Pray the Way the Disciples Did<\/h2>\n\n<p>You can do the same thing today. Open the Gospels and spend a few minutes with Jesus: what He said, where He went, how He prayed. Then talk to God about what you just read, in plain words. Do it again tomorrow. That&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n\n<p>If you&#8217;d like a gentle path for that, it&#8217;s exactly why we made <strong>30 Days Walking with Jesus<\/strong>. It walks through the life of Jesus one day at a time, and each day takes under 10 minutes. You get 30 short devotional videos (each under 60 seconds), 30 full-chapter audio readings, a complete PDF study guide with journal prompts, and 5 quick-reference scripture guides.<\/p>\n\n<p>And it&#8217;s free. No card, no catch, no upsell, and it&#8217;s yours to keep on any device. The words of Jesus shouldn&#8217;t sit behind a paywall. Day 1 is ready whenever you are.<\/p>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-16018d1d wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\"><div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/30_Days_Walking_With_Jesus\/?utm_source=wordpress&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=wwj&amp;utm_content=51\">Start Walking with Jesus &#8211; Day 1<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n<p>And if the day falls apart before you get the chance, here&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/bgodinspired.com\/index.php\/bible-resources\/bible-stories\/prayer-for-strength-ziklag\/\">a prayer for strength from one of David&#8217;s worst days<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n<h2>Questions People Are Asking<\/h2>\n\n<p><strong>Q: How do I pray if I&#8217;ve never prayed before?<\/strong><br>A: Talk to God the way you&#8217;d talk to a trusted friend, in plain words. You can start with the prayer Jesus taught in Luke 11:2-4: say who you&#8217;re talking to (&#8220;Our Father&#8221;), say what matters most, ask for what you need today, ask for forgiveness and forgive others, and ask for help with what&#8217;s ahead. Short and honest is fine.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Q: What did Jesus say about how to pray?<\/strong><br>A: When a disciple asked &#8220;Lord, teach us to pray&#8221; (Luke 11:1), Jesus gave a short prayer now known as the Lord&#8217;s Prayer. In Matthew 6:6-7 He also said to pray in a private place and not to use &#8220;vain repetitions,&#8221; because people are not heard &#8220;for their much speaking.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Q: Do I need special words to pray?<\/strong><br>A: No. Jesus warned against piling up words to be heard (Matthew 6:7), and He praised a tax collector&#8217;s very short plea for mercy in Luke 18. A simple &#8220;help me&#8221; or &#8220;thank you&#8221; is a real prayer.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Q: When is the best time to pray?<\/strong><br>A: Any time works, but many people find a quiet, regular time helps. Mark 1:35 says Jesus rose &#8220;a great while before day&#8221; and went to &#8220;a solitary place&#8221; to pray, and Luke 5:16 says He &#8220;withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed&#8221;. A few quiet minutes in the morning, in the car, or before bed can become a steady habit.<\/p>\n\n<p><strong>Q: How can I learn to pray better?<\/strong><br>A: Do what the first disciples did: spend time watching how Jesus prayed. 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