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She does it the way she has done it a hundred times. The talk gets a little too close, so she turns her head and finds us in the lens. The look says: are you seeing this?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Across from her, the Priest stops.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Where did you just go?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She tells him nowhere. She does it again, and he nearly points at the spot. There. You just went somewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is the third episode of the second series, and it is the moment most people mean when they go looking for the Fleabag<\/em> meaning. For eight episodes before it, nobody in the show had noticed her do it. Only we had. The reason it lands so hard was planted a whole series earlier, and it has less to do with the Priest than with us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What Fleabag is, before anything else<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Fleabag<\/em> is a British comedy-drama written by and starring Phoebe Waller-Bridge. It began as a one-woman stage show at the Edinburgh Festival Fringe in 2013 and became two television series of six episodes each, in 2016 and 2019, made by the BBC with Amazon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Waller-Bridge plays a woman whose name we never hear. The credits call her Fleabag. She runs a guinea-pig caf\u00e9 in London, and it is failing. Her mother has died. Her best friend Boo, who started the caf\u00e9 with her, has died too. Her father can barely hold a conversation with her. Her sister Claire keeps her at arm’s length. Her godmother is a smiling menace who is also, somehow, her father’s new partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And through all of it, she talks to us. A glance. A raised eyebrow. A line muttered straight into the camera while someone else is still mid-sentence. It is the show’s signature, and it is very, very funny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Fleabag meaning starts with the asides<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The asides do something clever to the viewer. They make us the one person she tells the truth to. Her family gets the performance. We get the commentary on the performance. We know what she really thinks of her brother-in-law. We know when she is lying to her sister. We feel chosen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now look at where the asides land. Again and again they arrive just as something is about to hurt. A memory of Boo starts to surface, and there is a joke. Her father fails to say the thing that matters, and there is a look. The aside shows up exactly where the feeling would have gone, and takes its seat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They do for her roughly what the chip does for the grieving widower in Severance<\/a>. They buy a little time with no grief in it, a few seconds at a stretch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The one thing she never told us<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Then the last episode of the first series pulls the floor out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We already know how Boo died. Her boyfriend cheated on her. She stepped into traffic meaning only to hurt herself, and it killed her. What we have not been told, in six episodes of Fleabag apparently telling us everything, is who he cheated with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is her sister who lets it out, in one furious line, and a flashback does the rest. The woman was Fleabag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is the thing the whole show turns on, and it is easy to miss because it happens to the audience rather than to a character. We were never her confidant. We were the most carefully managed relationship she had. She could be filthy and funny and devastatingly candid with us precisely because she chose what we got to see. The asides were never a window. They were a very good curtain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Waller-Bridge has talked about this directly. She told NPR’s Fresh Air<\/em> in 2019 that being watched all the time sounds like fun, but is really “a nightmare because you feel like you have to constantly perform to them.” The constant eye on her character, she said, was “the perfect pressure for her to then crack under because she wasn’t being honest and she wasn’t being truthful.”<\/p>\n\n\n